FAMILY & CHILDREN'S COUNSELING SERVICES, INC.
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      • Multi-Sensory Integration
      • Parent-Child Therpay
      • Experiential Therapy
      • REBT
      • EMDR
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        • For Schools and Districts- PBIS Partners
      • E-Motion >
        • Movement- Stored Trauma Therapy
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​Of Caterpillars and Courage
 
The little caterpillar’s “comfort zone” had always been on the ground: inching along, minding her business. She had wondered if this was all that life had to offer and would often dream of something better.
 
She had considered growing, changing… building a cocoon and turning into a butterfly… but she never actually did anything about it. After all, she had never built a cocoon before, so she was worried that she wouldn’t do it right. Even if she did do it right, she was afraid of what being inside a cocoon was all about. Would it be dark? Quiet? Lonely? Would it hurt? What would she have to do or say or think? Would she even make it out alive?
 
If she did make it out alive, how would she know how to be a butterfly? Would her wings work? Who would teach her how to fly? Would she miss inching along on the ground?

It was all too much! Eventually, the caterpillar came to the conclusion that she was fine right where she was. She decided that life had saw fit to put her on the ground and that was right where she was going to stay. She just wasn’t willing to put forth the effort or make the commitment to go after something so... unsure.
 
Sadly, her fear of the unknown kept her grounded and oblivious to the knowledge of the beautiful being she was meant to be. Her “something so unsure” was not unsure at all, but a divine plan to turn her into a beautiful creature. Her unwillingness to see this truth left her stuck in world where she no longer belonged. She would never get her wings.
 
She would never leave the ground. She would never fly.
 
How many times do we think like this caterpillar? We forget that we are inching along on the ground with a limited view of the world, a limited knowledge of life and of what the future holds. We worry about things that may never happen. We focus on the potential perils and overlook the positive possibilities.
 
In order to reach toward greatness and to find healing and wholeness, we must be willing to step outside of our “comfort zone.” We have to get permanently comfortable with being temporarily uncomfortable. We must be willing to consider the possibility that our comfort zone may not be that comfortable at all.

Don’t let the fear of the unknown, uncertainty about the future, or your lack of faith in your abilities hold you down.
 
You were created to fly.​

HELPING FAMILIES HEAL, PLAY AND LOVE!


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FCCS is directed by Melinda Haynes, MA, California LMFT 102308.  Oklahoma LMFT 1153. North Carolina LMFT 2143.

We provide therapy for various trauma issues including absent parent, parent in prison, violence, witnessing violence, domestic violence, tragedy, murder,, witness to murder, grief, loss,, death, friend killed, violence in neighborhood, fear, first responder, vicarious trauma, nightmares, panic.

​The National Supervised Visitation online training program is a subsidiary of FCCS and can be found at 
https://www.SupervisedVisitationTraining.com.  Professional consulting for mental and behavioral health professionals is available at www.MelindaHaynes.com.  


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    • What We Do
    • Meet Our Team >
      • Bryony Hottendorf - Human Resources Assistant
      • Bryony Hottendorf - Human Resources Manager
      • Roxanna Taylor- Supervised Visitation Monitor
      • Roxanna Taylor- General Assistant Therapy Program
      • Leslie Martinez Supervised Visitation Monitor
      • Kasandra Estrada
      • Erica Washington, MSW, ACSW Associate Clinical Social Worker 95523
      • Tiffany Runge, AMFT 112914
      • Emily Medina, MS, LMFT 134196
      • Tyree Griffith MS APCC 7863
      • Julianna Hopkins Therapist Trainee
      • Lizbeth Brito Therapist Trainee >
        • Lizbeth Brito aprendiz de terapeuta
      • Katie Servin Therapist Trainee >
        • Katie Servin aprendiz de terapeuta
        • Katie Servin ASL Therapist Trainee
      • Amber McGuire Therapist Trainee
      • Jamie Aleman Therapist Trainee
      • Linda Garrido Therapist Trainee
      • Melinda Haynes, MA, LMFT. Executive Director
    • Our History
    • As Seen On
    • Trauma-Informed
    • Mission Vision Philosophy
    • Values
  • Services
    • Coaching >
      • Reunification Coaching
      • Co-Parenting | Parallel Parenting Coaching
      • Parent Skills Coaching
      • Kids Behavior Coaching
    • Therapy or Counseling >
      • Family Therapy
      • Child Therapy
      • Couples Counseling
      • Teen Therapy
      • Reunification Therapy
      • Co-Parenting Therapy
      • LGBTQAI+ Counseling
      • Christian Counseling
      • Foster /Kinship
      • Post-Adoption
      • Family Maintenance
      • EPIC Family
    • Types of Therapy >
      • Online Therapy >
        • Online Therapy- Questions and Answers
      • Cognitive-Behavioral (CBT)
      • Play Therapy
      • Play Therapy for Adults
      • Multi-Sensory Integration
      • Parent-Child Therpay
      • Experiential Therapy
      • REBT
      • EMDR
      • School Based Family Counseling >
        • For Schools and Districts- PBIS Partners
      • E-Motion >
        • Movement- Stored Trauma Therapy
      • Mindfulness
    • Supervised Visitation >
      • Online Visits
      • Getting Started
      • Facilitated Visitation
      • Monitored Exchange
    • Family Preservation
    • Groups >
      • Confident Kids
      • Productive Parenting
    • Daycare / School- Based Services
    • Associate Clinical Supervision
    • Workshops
    • Online Learning Center >
      • Become a Supervised Visitation Monitor
    • PBIS Partners >
      • Why Do We Have Empty Chairs?
      • Signs A Student May Benefit
      • Why Should My School Collaborate with FCCS?
      • School-Based Services May Include
  • Insurance / Fees
    • Insurance Accepted >
      • Anthem Blue Cross Medi-Cal
      • TriCare
      • Health Net
      • California Health and Wellness
      • Cigna
      • aetna
      • Molina
      • Molina Medi-Cal
      • Kaiser
      • Victim-Witness
      • Cash Pay
      • Important Note About Insurance
    • Superbills
    • Reduced Fee Therapy
  • Helpful Links
    • Legal Resources in California
    • Community Services
    • Can Therapy Help Me?
    • Can Therapy Help My Child?
    • Helping Kids Feel Safe in a Scary World
    • Attachment Trauma Recovery >
      • Origins of Attachment Trauma
      • Signs of Attachment Trauma in Adults and Children
      • Therapy for Attachment Trauma
    • Mental Health Apps
    • Help! My Kids Have Been Taken by CPS >
      • California CSD
    • Places to Go- Family Fun >
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        • Places to Go in Butte County California
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        • Places to Go Suisun City, California
        • Places to Go in Fairfield, California
      • Places to Go in North Carolina
      • Places to Go in Oklahoma >
        • Places to Go in Tulsa, Oklahoma
        • Places to Go in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
    • Recommended Reading
    • Celebrity Psychology
    • Weight Management >
      • Why We Develop Bad Habits
      • Diets Don't Work
      • Mapping Out Success
      • Journaling
      • Making New Habits
      • Creating Staying Power
    • Can We Talk?
    • Life On Their Terms >
      • Is My Partner Abusive?
      • The Cycle of Violence
      • Dangers of Staying
      • Healing From an Abusive Relationship
    • What is a Treatment Plan?
    • Of Caterpillars and Courage
    • LifeStyle Wellbeing- Creating a New You
  • Career Center
    • What We Offer
    • Practicum Site - Healthcare Administrator
    • Practicum Site - Therapist Trainee >
      • Practicum Site Palmdale California
    • Now Hiring Front Office Coordinator Therapy Office