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What’s Next?! A Teen Guide to Identity and Choices 

What’s Next?! is a guided workbook designed to help teens slow down, think clearly, and make decisions they can actually stand on.

This isn’t about telling teens who they should be. It’s about helping them understand who they are becoming.

Built from a therapeutic and developmental lens, this workbook walks teens through:

-  identity
- pressure
- emotions
- relationships
- and decision-making

in a way that is practical, honest, and easy to engage with.

​It breaks down what’s happening in their brain, why certain choices feel so urgent, and how to step back long enough to choose differently.

Inside, teens will learn how to:

- Understand their thoughts, emotions, and reactions without getting overwhelmed
- Recognize pressure from peers, social media, and internal expectations
- Build a clearer sense of identity and direction
- Make decisions that align with who they actually want to become
- Strengthen boundaries, repair relationships, and navigate conflict

Each section combines short, digestible insights with guided prompts and reflection exercises that help teens apply what they’re learning immediately.

The goal is simple:
​
Not perfection. Not pressure. Not performance. Rather, clarity. Because when a teen can slow down long enough to think clearly, everything changes.

Available Now: https://tinyurl.com/getwhatsnext
​
About the Author: Melinda Haynes is a licensed mental health therapist, mom, and Lolly with over two decades of experiences helping families thrive. 



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        • The Cycle of Violence
        • Dangers of Staying
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        • Molina
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      • Teen Therapy
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      • Foster /Kinship
      • Post-Adoption
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      • EPIC Family
      • Family Preservation
      • Folletos en espanol
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      • Why Social Workers, Attorneys, and Courts Refer to Us
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      • Cognitive-Behavioral (CBT)
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